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52 Card Pick Up

Everything in life depends on perspective.

by Deedra Abboud in Mindset, Political, Solutions
September 16, 2015 0 comments

Just after the Iraq invasion, mid-2004, I attended an interfaith lunch with just women. One of the ladies hosted it in her home, and each of us brought a dish to share. Not only were several faiths represented but several nationalities as well – so you know the food was the highlight of the event!

As we mingled with each other trying the varied dishes and talking about all the topics people at social functions touch on, one lady made the statement that we had invaded Iraq to free the women. I responded (my husband is from Iraq) that the women were free in Iraq. She said, no they had no rights to vote or hold political office, so they were not free. I replied, no Iraqi women have had the right to vote and held political offices since the 1980’s. (Of course, not a large number in comparison to the populations, but the same can be said of the US).

I advised her she was thinking Afghanistan, not Iraq. She again stood firm that she knew for sure the women in Iraq had no voting rights, no political positions, and no access to education.

I then asked her if she had ever heard of the “52 Most Wanted” deck of cards the US had created with the faces, names, and descriptions of the 52 Iraqi citizens the US Government wanted to capture and hold accountable. She said she had heard of it. I suggested she should find a deck to view because at least one of the cards was a woman (not only one), and that woman was both one of the Vice-Presidents of Iraq and a scientist.

That made her think. After all, how could Iraq have a Vice-President if women could not hold political office? By extension, how could, and why would a woman hold political office if women could not vote?

Were women in Iraq oppressed in other ways? It depends on the perspective of the person answering the question. Iraq society is not like US society, but is that really the measuring stick? It depends on whom you ask.

From a “western” perspective, Iraqi women are oppressed socially and politically. However, I would suggest that women in Iraq are more oppressed today than they have ever been in the history of Iraq, including under Saddam, despite the quota system giving Iraqi women a powerless portion of the political seats. Too bad that.

Everything in life depends on perspective. It depends on whether you are experiencing something or observing something. It depends on whether you believe something to be true or to be false – and whether you are open to different perspectives. It depends on whether you know what you believe. It even depends on whether you know why you believe something or are just following what you heard.

My suggestion is always, don’t be a follower – even if you are headed in the same direction.

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